Paar: Care for Couples

Paar is a cozy space for two of you. Notice the little things your partner does for you, write them down in seconds and say thanks — with hearts, a reward or simply a “thank you”.

NOTICE THE CARE
Your partner did the dishes, waited, didn’t interrupt. A note takes 15 seconds and lands in your shared calendar with a date and a few words on why it mattered.

HEARTS AND REWARDS
Thank each other with hearts. Save them up and swap them for something from your wish shelf — breakfast in bed, a surprise date, a day off your way — or propose your own wish.

BOUNDARIES, WRITTEN DOWN
Describe what matters to you. Your partner reads and signs each boundary — so they know in advance instead of guessing after a quarrel.

A CHALLENGE FOR THE MONTH
Pick a challenge together. Do it before the month is out and you’ll each get hearts.

HOW WELL DO YOU KNOW EACH OTHER
Answer a short survey about yourself and guess your partner’s answers.

IMPORTANT DATES
Add your anniversaries — Paar reminds you in advance.

ONLY FOR THE TWO OF YOU
No public feed, no ratings, no ads. Only you and your partner see your notes.

Paar is made for two: you both install the app and pair up with a code. You can unpair at any time and delete your profile with all its data right in the app.

For adults 18+.