OurMaybe

Find out what you both want. You each answer alone, and only the overlap is shown.

OurMaybe shows a couple what they both want, and nothing else.

You each answer the same list on your own phone, one line at a time: yes, maybe, or no. When you're both done, you see the lines neither of you turned down. A no is never shown, never counted and never hinted at.

HOW IT WORKS • Pair up once with a link. No account, no password. • Pick a list and answer it alone. Tap or swipe: right for yes, left for no, up for maybe. • Your partner answers the same list on their phone. • You both see the overlap: what you both said yes to, and the maybes worth a second look.

THE LISTS • Date Night: 52 ideas, from tonight to someday • Getaways: where you'd both go and how you'd travel • Movie Night: what you'd both actually watch • Dinner for Two: cooking, ordering and trying new places • Out & Active: sports, hobbies and things to do together • Books & Culture: what you'd read, hear and go see • After Dark: a private list for adult couples, 18+, in three levels

PRIVATE BY DESIGN • Your answers are encrypted with a key that only exists on your two phones. • Your partner never sees what you turned down. Neither do we. • Lock the app with Face ID. • Delete your shared space, with everything in it, at any time.

You can stop a list and finish it later; your progress stays on your phone.

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