Reluma: Dating Pattern Tracker

Writing and reading your moments is free, always. Reluma shows you when a moment becomes a pattern.

It won't tell you he's avoidant. It'll tell you he cancelled three times.

Write what happened, in your own words. RELUMA shows you what you wrote — his moves and yours, dated — and names the pattern when there is one.

Built by a licensed psychotherapist. No AI guessing why. No labels. Your first read is free, no account.

HOW IT WORKS

Say what happened, in your own words. RELUMA sorts who did what, flags what stands out, and remembers. You decide what happens next. RELUMA doesn't.

After each moment, get a signal — red, yellow, or green — for you and for them. Not a verdict: RELUMA proposes, you confirm. One tap. Nothing counts until you say it's right.

The more you use it, the clearer the picture gets: what you keep doing, not who you supposedly are. No diagnoses. No advice. Just what's actually going on, in your own words, handed back to you.

WHY IT'S DIFFERENT

Most dating content hands out labels — "you're anxious attachment," "he's avoidant" — from people with a bad breakup and a following. RELUMA was built by a licensed psychotherapist with real clinical training, for the moments therapy doesn't reach: 2am, mid-spiral, before you hit send.

It's not you. It's the pattern.

SAY WHAT HAPPENED Describe one moment in your own words. In 60 seconds, RELUMA hands it back sorted — who did what, what stands out, what you'd usually miss. No advice. No scripts. No labels.

TRACK IT AS IT HAPPENS Log a date the night it happens. RELUMA keeps a private timeline and notices when something starts to look familiar — before you're six dates deep.

SEE YOUR PATTERN Reflect a few times and RELUMA shows you what keeps happening — in your words, with dates. Not a quiz result. Not a diagnosis. A mirror.

PRIVATE BY DESIGN Your entries are yours. Never shared, never public.

Your first read is free. See what you keep doing.

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