Dating Counselor

Juggling several people? Keep a private dossier on each so you never mix them up, and audit every match for red flags before and after dates. No cloud, no AI.

Stop wondering if it's you. Find out.

Dating Counselor is the brutally honest friend who tells you the truth about your matches and about yourself. Before and after every date, it asks the questions a best friend, a protective parent, a sharp detective, and a level-headed psychologist would ask. Then it cross-references your answers against the goals and dealbreakers YOU set, and gives you a clear, honest read. No swiping. No profiles to browse. This isn't another dating app; it's the counselor you talk to about the dating apps.

HOW IT WORKS Build your blueprint: a private profile of what you actually want: your goals, your attachment style, your absolute dealbreakers, and the traps you keep falling into. Audit your match: answer built-in questions while you're still texting, and again after you've met in person. Read the verdict: a clear flag score, your green and red flags spelled out, and a deep analysis that connects this match to every pattern you've shown before.

FOUR VOICES, ONE HONEST ANSWER • The Friend asks if you actually had fun, or just liked having a date. • The Mother notices how they treated the waiter, and whether you could be yourself. • The Detective checks whether their story adds up and spots quiet safety flags. • The Psychologist reads for control, love-bombing, and whether you felt calm or anxious.

WHAT IT CATCHES • Dealbreaker hard-stops the moment a match crosses a line you drew yourself • Pattern reports across every match: the player magnet, the breadcrumb habit, the regret loop • The Accountability Mirror: it grades YOU too. If you were the problem, it says so, kindly. • After-date debriefs that turn a confusing night into clarity

FOR EVERYONE WHO DATES Dating Counselor is built for all orientations and identities. Whether you're straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, queer, trans, or non-binary, the questions adapt to you, with dedicated sections for LGBTQ+ dating realities, from outness and discretion to safety, being fetishized, and T4T dynamics. Everyone deserves a counselor in their corner.

JUGGLING THREE PEOPLE? STOP MIXING THEM UP "Wait, is she the one who's vegetarian, or was that the guy from Hinge? Did I already ask him where he grew up?" When you're actively dating more than one person, the details blur. You forget who works where, who has the dog, who you can't take for sushi, what you already told each other. One slip and a promising match feels like you weren't listening, because you weren't, you just couldn't remember. Every match gets a private Dossier: their real name, job, city and neighbourhood, family, hobbies, dietary quirks, where things stand, key stories they told you, and topics to avoid. Add a photo so faces never blur. Open it before a date and walk in fully briefed, like the kind of person who remembers everything.

PRIVATE BY DESIGN Your love life is nobody's business but yours. • No account, no sign-up, no profile of you • No cloud, your data never leaves your phone • No ads, no tracking, no third parties, ever Everything runs entirely on your device, even in airplane mode. We couldn't read your data if we tried.

SIMPLE, HONEST PRICING Audit your first match free. Unlock unlimited audits and full pattern reports with a single one-time purchase, no subscription, ever.

A NOTE ON SAFETY No score matters more than your safety. If someone threatens, pressures, or hurts you, that's not a red flag to weigh; it's a reason to get help, and Dating Counselor will always tell you so. Ready to stop dating in the dark? Your counselor is waiting.