Unfight

Every couple fights. Unfight helps you fight better.

When the words get sharp, paste what your partner said and what you want to say back. Unfight's AI shows you the feeling behind their message and rewrites your reply into something honest, warm, and less likely to spark the next argument.

Unfight is not a therapist, not a coach, and not another couples' app asking you to rate your day. It's a tiny private space in your pocket for the moment between the fight and the makeup — the one minute that decides whether tonight gets worse or a little softer.

— WHAT YOU GET —

Translate a fight. Paste a message that stung. Unfight names the underlying feeling (ignored · craving attention · testing · cold war), tells you what your partner might actually mean, and suggests a reply that lands without escalating.

Break the ice. Two days of silence? Pick a tone — sincere, humorous, sweet, or rational — and get three opening messages in your voice. Send, tweak, or ignore. Weekly recap. Let the AI read back your recent arguments and find the pattern. A short, friendly recap with three concrete things to try next time — no psychobabble.

Your Archive. A quiet space to look back without judgment. A gentle 0–100 health trend, records you can revisit, recaps you can keep.

— WHY UNFIGHT IS DIFFERENT —

Built for privacy. No account. No login. No servers we control. Everything — your messages, drafts, recaps, preferences — lives only on your iPhone using Apple's secure SwiftData storage.

Honest about AI. Unfight uses OpenAI's models to generate suggestions. We're straightforward: the AI can be wrong, and you're always the one choosing what to send. Bring your own OpenAI key for full control and faster responses.

Not a substitute for help. Unfight is a communication tool, not therapy or crisis support. If you or your partner are in an unsafe situation, please reach out to a trusted human or a professional service.

— WHO IT'S FOR —

• Couples who love each other but sometimes sound like they don't. • Anyone who's sent a message and instantly regretted it. • People new to a relationship learning how their partner expresses hurt. • Long-distance couples who can't read a face over text.

— PRIVACY AT A GLANCE —

• No ads, no tracking, no analytics. • No IDFA, no cross-app tracking, no App Tracking Transparency prompt — because we don't need to. • Your OpenAI API key, if you provide one, is stored in iOS Keychain. • You can export everything as JSON or wipe it all with one tap.

Fight less. Love more. Unfight.