BedStats: Intimacy Journal

Lock Screen widgets, Control Center quick-start, and a Live Activity timer. Face ID-locked, local-first, no account, no subscription.

BedStats is a private, local-first intimacy journal for adults who want a calm record of their relationship life.

Log the moments that matter. Keep track of mood, wellbeing, and connection. Plan ahead. Your story stays on your phone, where it belongs.

— LOCAL-FIRST, NO ACCOUNT, NO TRACKING —

• Your data lives on your phone, not on our servers • No sign-up, no tracking, no ads • Unlock with Face ID, Touch ID, or your passcode • Switch to a discreet home-screen icon when you want one

— LOG WHAT MATTERS —

• Solo or partnered entries • Multiple partners per entry, each with their own details • Activities, wellness, and safety notes • Protection preferences and reproductive health tracking • Initiator, place, duration, personal ratings • Mood, feelings, and free-form notes • Photos and short videos, stored locally • Customizable forms: hide fields you never use, rename the ones you do

— SEE THE PATTERNS —

• Wellbeing entries and optional daily check-ins • Frequency, streaks, and average duration • Per-partner insights and history • Safety coverage at a glance • Monthly calendar heatmap • Charts for protection, solo vs. partnered, and initiator • Wellbeing-vs-activity trendline • Map of entry locations (optional) • Apple Health sync (optional) • On-device Apple Intelligence summary of recent patterns (optional, iOS 18.1+)

— HOME SCREEN, LOCK SCREEN, CONTROL CENTER —

• Activity Heatmap widget • Recent Entries widget • Days Since Last Entry counters • Filtered Entries, Metric Counter, and Quick Actions widgets • Control Center widget to start a Quick Entry in one tap • Live Activity and Dynamic Island timer for in-progress entries

— PLAN AHEAD —

• Schedule planned entries with reminders • Quick-start timer for live logging, with Live Activity • Notifications only when you ask for them

— PARTNERS, YOUR WAY —

• Add partners with pronouns, default preferences, and health dates • Works for monogamous, open, poly, or casual setups • Built for every gender, orientation, and relationship style • Hide partner names if you want extra discretion

— PRIVACY, SERIOUSLY —

BedStats was built around one idea: your personal life is nobody's business but yours. So the app is local-first by default. No account, no cloud, no analytics. Just a quiet, adult journal that stays on your phone.

• Biometric lock with Face ID, Touch ID, or device passcode • Alternate discreet app icons • Local backup and export, on your terms • No third-party trackers, ever

BedStats is for adults who want a more intentional approach to their relationship life, whether you're tracking solo, as a couple, as a polycule, or you just prefer a thoughtful log over another gamified dashboard.

— A SMALL, INDEPENDENT TEAM —

Questions, bug reports, ideas? We read every email. BedStats is actively maintained and shaped by the people who use it.

Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/