Ask Mary

21 real scenarios. Ranked strategies for your child's age. Try it free - no account needed.

When your child is mid-meltdown, there is no time to search. Ask Mary gives you ranked, practical parenting strategies in seconds - developed with a registered psychologist.

Pick the scenario. Get strategies ranked for your child's age. That is it.

Ask Mary covers 21 real scenarios across all ages:

Toddler and child behaviour challenges

• Tantrums and meltdowns
• Aggression and hitting
• Defiance and not listening
• Big feelings and emotional overwhelm

Everyday battles

• Bedtime resistance
• Screen time battles
• Eating and food refusal
• Morning routine struggles
• Homework and learning resistance

Social and family challenges

• Sibling fighting and rivalry
• Separation anxiety
• Peer conflict
• Not sharing or taking turns

Teen-specific challenges

• Boundaries and pushing back
• Teen communication breakdown
• School avoidance
• Social withdrawal

Each strategy is ranked for your child's age band - 0 to 2, 3 to 4, 5 to 11, or 12 to 18. Younger kids get a playful approach first, with a calmer option if that is not landing. Older children and teens get direct, practical strategies.

Save the strategies that work for your family. Next time that moment hits, you know exactly where to go.

Ask Mary is free to try. Explore 2 scenarios for free, then unlock all scenarios and strategies with a one-time purchase - no subscription required.

Ask Mary provides general parenting guidance for educational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are concerned about your child's development or wellbeing, consult a qualified professional.