Tend - Outreach

Never forget to reach out. Tend helps you maintain friendships with gentle reminders based on how often you want to connect.

Tend is a personal relationship manager designed for people who care deeply about their friendships but struggle to keep up. Set a frequency for each friend, and Tend will remind you when it's time to reach out.

STAY CONNECTED, YOUR WAY • Set custom reach-out frequencies for each friend (every few days, weekly, monthly) • Get gentle reminders when someone is overdue for a catch-up • Log connections quickly — calls, texts, dinners, hangouts

RELATIONSHIP CIRCLES • Friends are automatically organized into tiers based on how often you connect • See at a glance who needs attention and who you're keeping up with • Track your connection patterns over time

SMART FEATURES • Import friends from your contacts • Sync logged connections to your iOS calendar • Birthday reminders so you never miss one • Transit time to a friend's location • Ask AI natural language questions about your connection history

PRIVACY FIRST • All data stored locally on your device by default • Optional encrypted cloud backup • No ads, no tracking, no data selling • Delete everything at any time

Built for people with ADHD and anyone who wants to be more intentional about maintaining the relationships that matter most.