Guardian Flame

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Know who you're actually meeting.

You matched. You've been chatting. The date's on Thursday. Guardian Flame is the ten-second step in between: you both verify who you are, you both see the same thing, and you both walk in knowing the other person is real.

How it works

Verify yourself once — a quick ID check with Shufti. Takes about two minutes. Send your match your link. They verify too. It's mutual: they see your tick, you see theirs. Check the signals. See structured feedback from past dates — the green flags as well as the red ones — and decide if it's worth the coffee.

Your ID, in plain English

Verification is handled by Shufti. We never see or store your ID document. Your date sees one thing: that you're verified. Not your document, not your details. Delete your account and your data goes with it. Full details: guardianflame.com/privacy

Fair by design Feedback is structured and guided — specific behaviours, not free-text takedowns. Anyone can see and dispute feedback about them. Our moderation and dispute process is published at guardianflame.com.

Made in New Zealand for the way we actually date: small cities, overlapping circles, and a group chat that's already doing the research. Guardian Flame just makes it official.

Romance, with receipts.

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