Friend of Dorothy

Friend of Dorothy – Wellness, Community & Connection for Gay Men

Friend of Dorothy is the app designed for gay men who want more than just dating. It’s a space built for connection, wellbeing, and community. Created by the team behind Friend of Dorothy Wellness, one of the world’s leading gay men’s sexual wellness brands, the app brings together events, resources, and health services designed specifically for our community.

Already trusted by 100,000+ gay men worldwide, Friend of Dorothy exists to help gay men live healthier, more connected and more confident lives. What you’ll find inside the Friend of Dorothy app:

LGBTQ+ Events & Social Activities Discover unique events designed to help gay men meet in real life — from fitness and sports to board games, pottery, social meetups and community experiences.

Make Friends or Find Dates Choose how you want to connect. The Friend of Dorothy community focuses on real connections, not endless swiping.

Digital Pharmacy & Health Services Access discreet online healthcare designed for gay men, including treatments for sexual health, hair loss, weight management and more through our digital clinic partners.

Wellness & Expert Support Find trusted experts including therapists, coaches and wellbeing professionals who understand the realities of gay men’s lives.

Podcast & Community Content Listen to the Friend of Dorothy Wellness podcast and explore conversations about sexuality, relationships, health and modern gay life.

Exclusive Products & Member Rewards

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Our Mission

For decades, the phrase “Friend of Dorothy” was a secret way for gay men to find each other.

Today we’re bringing that spirit into the modern world — helping gay men connect openly, support each other and build stronger communities. Friend of Dorothy is building the first integrated wellness and connection platform created specifically for gay men.