InRealLife.Club: Stay in Touch

NEW in 2.0: activity ideas, group hangouts, conversation starters, birthdays, XP & Relationship Levels, Siri, and backup. Your whole social life — leveled up.

You said "we should catch up soon." That was last March. InRealLife.Club is the nudge that actually gets you to send the text.

Be the friend who shows up.

HOW THE CLUB WORKS Pick the people who matter. Set how often you want to be in touch — daily, weekly, monthly, yearly. The app quietly reminds you at the right moment. No feeds. No timelines. No drama. Just the people.

ONE REMINDER A DAY. NEVER MORE. Reminders arrive during lunch, one contact at a time, so you actually have a minute to reach out. The system spreads your friends across the calendar so nobody gets lost and no day gets crowded. If you skip a day, it reschedules — you never have to think about it.

PRIVACY, NOT AS A FEATURE — AS A PROMISE Your contacts, activities, and streaks live on your phone. No sign-up. No email. No cloud sync. No ads. Back up to your own iCloud or Files whenever you want. Restore on a new phone with one tap.

LEVEL UP YOUR FRIENDSHIPS Every reachout earns XP and moves that friend up the ladder: New Friend → Getting Closer → Good Friend → Close Friend → Best Friend → Soulmate. Tap a friend's bubble to see where you stand. Complete challenges, build streaks, watch your social stats grow in a dedicated dashboard. Fun, not manipulative — you can ignore it entirely and the app still works.

PLAN WHAT YOU WANT TO DO Create activities for any contact — coffee, a walk, a weekly game night, the yearly ski trip. When the reminder fires, you already know what you planned. Activities can be one-off or repeat forever. Works for solo hangouts, group get-togethers, or "everyone on their own" plans.

NEVER BLANK ON WHAT TO SAY Customize conversation starters once, and the app prefills your text when you tap to message. Break the ice without overthinking it. Works with SMS, WhatsApp, or Telegram — your choice.

NEVER MISS A BIRTHDAY Birthdays are pulled automatically from your phone's contacts. A gentle nudge at 9am on the day. Add, change, or remove a birthday in your phonebook and the app updates itself. No manual entry, ever.

HANDS-FREE WITH SIRI & SHORTCUTS "Hey Siri, set a reminder for Hannah in InRealLife Club." Done. Create activities, schedule reminders, or open straight to the right screen by voice.

FREE FOREVER FOR YOUR FIVE CLOSEST The Club is free for up to 5 friends — the whole app, not a trial. Unlock unlimited friends with PRO (monthly or yearly) when you're ready to bring the rest of the Club in. Cancel anytime.

EVERY FEATURE • Smart reminders, one friend per day, during lunch • Auto-rescheduling schedule that rescues missed days • Birthday reminders pulled from your contacts • XP, streaks, challenges, and relationship levels • Social stats dashboard • One-on-one and group activities, one-off or repeating • "Each on their own" mode for shared plans • Custom conversation starters with activity examples • SMS, WhatsApp, or Telegram for messaging • Siri Shortcuts (iOS 16+) • Full backup and restore via iCloud or Files • 7 languages — English, Spanish, French, German, Chinese, Japanese, Korean • No account. No cloud sync. Ever.

Your friends don't need a grand gesture. They need you to text back. Start your Club today.

SUBSCRIPTION PRO is available as an auto-renewing monthly or yearly subscription, or a one-time purchase. The subscription renews automatically unless turned off at least 24 hours before the period ends in your App Store Account Settings; unused periods aren't refundable.

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