Overview

Rating:
3.50 +2
(211)
Version:
5.63.0
Last updated: 2026-08-29
Ranking
#113,407 308
Overall

Features & Capabilities

the L (formerly Rela) is the world's leading queer women's community, blending dating and live social features in a safe, women-focused space. Core tools include Journal for private feelings, Topics for engaging conversations, Mood for quick updates, and Anonymous posting for carefree sharing. The app helps you connect with other women who share your interests and vibes.

Meet Her features help you discover nearby matches with advanced filters, explore travel dating worldwide, and spark conversations with Quick Match. Live Chats offer Video Live sessions and Voice Chat for casual, no-camera chats. The platform emphasizes safety through identity verification and clear community guidelines, with a subscription model for premium features and links to the privacy policy and terms.

User Growth & Download Statistics

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Developed by:
Hangzhou Re Lan Network Technology Co., Ltd.
Apple Apps Store
https://apps.apple.com/us/app/the-l-lesbian-dating-live/id1086944243
Website:
https://ww.rela.me

User Reviews

Overall sentiment: Pros include simplicity, a Chinese-language lesbian community, and occasional positive connections. Cons include intrusive ads, frequent bugs and login/verification issues, scammers/impersonation, content posting restrictions, and weak support/maintenance.
Pros
  • Easy to use and intuitive interface.
  • Localized Chinese-speaking lesbian community.
  • Some users have had positive interactions or met someone.
Cons
  • Intrusive, full-screen ads and difficult-to-skip advertising disrupt the user experience.
  • Frequent bugs, crashes, and login/verification problems (including verification failures and being logged out).
  • Scammers and impersonation are common, with fake profiles and crypto scams reported.
  • Content posting restrictions and moderation limit LGBT content and cultural expression (e.g., rainbow flag posts).
  • Weak customer support and maintenance issues (no direct contact, ongoing updates/maintenance causing problems).
Recent reviews
One star for the ad bug that plays loud ads suddenly and for not providing details for what exactly triggers a system warning. Like how do you expect users to know? Many of their contracted live influencers are rude and entitled; they will keep harassing you to tip. This app has been going steady downhill in the past 10 years. If you’re one of the original users, they also make account recovery basically impossible. 广告bug会突然播放震耳欲聋的广告还无法关闭,而且系统警告的触发条件也没有任何说明具体是哪句话或者那个行为违反文明条约。用户怎么可能知道?他们合作的很多主播都粗鲁无礼,自以为是,还会不停地骚扰你让你打赏。这app过去十年一直在走下坡路。如果你是早期用户,他们还设置重重找回账号的门槛,几乎不可能。
by ar*****, 2026-08-26

I hope there’s translation tool
by ja*****, 2025-11-23
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