Features & Capabilities

the L (formerly Rela) is the world's leading queer women's community, blending dating and live social features in a safe, women-focused space. Core tools include Journal for private feelings, Topics for engaging conversations, Mood for quick updates, and Anonymous posting for carefree sharing. The app helps you connect with other women who share your interests and vibes.

Meet Her features help you discover nearby matches with advanced filters, explore travel dating worldwide, and spark conversations with Quick Match. Live Chats offer Video Live sessions and Voice Chat for casual, no-camera chats. The platform emphasizes safety through identity verification and clear community guidelines, with a subscription model for premium features and links to the privacy policy and terms.

User Growth & Download Statistics

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Developed by:
Hangzhou Re Lan Network Technology Co., Ltd.
Apple Apps Store
https://apps.apple.com/us/app/the-l-lesbian-dating-live/id1086944243
Website:
https://ww.rela.me

User Reviews

Overall sentiment: Pros include simplicity, a Chinese-language lesbian community, and occasional positive connections. Cons include intrusive ads, frequent bugs and login/verification issues, scammers/impersonation, content posting restrictions, and weak support/maintenance.
Pros
  • Easy to use and intuitive interface.
  • Localized Chinese-speaking lesbian community.
  • Some users have had positive interactions or met someone.
Cons
  • Intrusive, full-screen ads and difficult-to-skip advertising disrupt the user experience.
  • Frequent bugs, crashes, and login/verification problems (including verification failures and being logged out).
  • Scammers and impersonation are common, with fake profiles and crypto scams reported.
  • Content posting restrictions and moderation limit LGBT content and cultural expression (e.g., rainbow flag posts).
  • Weak customer support and maintenance issues (no direct contact, ongoing updates/maintenance causing problems).
Recent reviews
I hope there’s translation tool
by ja*****, 2025-11-23

I’m Asian and I cannot post any things about 🌈,so you know. I can only post those in LGBT applications, including this one, but you guys don’t allow me to do so even (profile)I wanna put my own photo but grabbing a rainbow flag my hand you guys said that illegal. i’m so sorry. I know others gonna spy on the application. but please please give a rest if you can. I need somewhere to be myself. I can’t in real life so now I can’t even online? Maybe because the culture different , girls only wink, They don’t wanna talk with each other. and I feel awkward a lot, or I’m even afraid to talk to each other, cause they don’t want to talk to me. I don’t know I’m just saying so, because everyone have different thoughts. but still thank you to your people following r my suggestions: can we set up some groups? so we can make some friends and if I’m some same topics to talk… whatever have a good day guys and bye.hehe..
by Ki*****, 2025-08-08

特别简单好用的社交APP,会推荐给身边拉子一起玩的~
by ma*****, 2025-07-30
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