The NotME App

The NotME App – Empowering Clear, Enthusiastic Consent

The NotME app promotes transparent, mutual, and enthusiastic consent for all types of romantic or physical interactions between consenting adults. Its goal is to help every participant clearly understand one another’s intentions before any encounter whether they meet in person, online, through dating platforms, or at private social events.

Each participant creates a verified profile, with optional age and ID verification (verified users receive a pink checkmark). Users can also sponsor another person’s verification for added trust.

Once connected, a unique QR code is generated for each rendezvous. By scanning or sharing this code, all participants can privately select what activities they enthusiastically consent to. The app then displays only the mutually agreed-upon choices ensuring clear boundaries and shared understanding for everyone involved.

All confirmed consent data is securely stored and can only be accessed under legal process (such as a subpoena or court order).

The app also features a universal safe word: SEESAW when spoken, it signals that the interaction must stop immediately, reinforcing the principle that true connection only works when both sides are in sync.

The NotME App – Because real consent is mutual, clear, and enthusiastic.


Your personal data is securely stored on The NotME app, be sure to read our privacy policy and terms and conditions:
https://thenotmeapp.com/privacy-policy
https://thenotmeapp.com/terms-conditions